Trick 8
View Others How You Want To Be Viewed
People generally want others to view them the way they view themselves.
 This desire is known as self-verification, and it has the same effect whether your views of yourself are negative or positive.
Research into self-verification has found that we are more likely to have a good relationship with someone who views us the way we view ourselves.
If you have a favorable view of yourself, you’ll prefer someone who compliments you. However, having a negative self-view will steer you towards seeking a critical person’s company.